being mean to a server can have serious consequences. At least, it can be a good way to end up like Bill Hader, a former Saturday Night Live cast member who was fired from a movie theater for spoiling the end of Titanic for a group of girls. However, it’s hard to imagine a scenario where being mean to a server would be worse than what happened to Hader. After all, he got fired from a job that would have given him access to any movie he wanted. Why would he want to ruin his own life over a group of rude customers? On the other hand, when Hader was working at the movie theater, he was subjected to a barrage of insults and mocking from a group of girls. They were making fun of him, calling him Charles Manson, and ignoring his requests to move. It’s clear that Hader was at his wit’s end.
- One group of girls were on their way to see the 1997 film Titanic
- They ignored Hader when he asked them to move
- They were making fun of him, calling him Charles Manson
- He told them how the movie ends, despite them asking him not to
Hader claimed that the girls were being particularly mean, and that he was at his breaking point. He had been trying to ignore them, but they were relentless in their mocking. In the end, Hader decided to take matters into his own hands.
“They were making fun of me. They said I looked like Charles Manson. Which I kinda did. I had a little bowtie on and cummerbund, and I was like, ‘Hey guys, please move.’ And they were like, ‘No.’ So when they went in, as I tore the tickets, I was like, ‘Enjoy the movie. The boat sinks at the end. Leo dies.’ And they were like, ‘No, he doesn’t.’ I go, ‘Yeah, you think he’s asleep. But he’s frozen.’ And that showed them.”
As you can see, Hader was very confident and direct in his approach. He wasn’t afraid to speak his mind and tell the girls that he knew the ending of the movie. It’s clear that he was trying to assert his authority and show them who’s boss.
| Loss of job | Damage to reputation | Missed opportunities |
It’s worth noting that Hader’s actions were not without consequence. He was fired from his job, and it’s likely that his reputation was damaged as a result. However, it’s also possible that his bold approach paid off. By standing up to the girls and asserting his authority, Hader may have made a statement that he will not be intimidated or bullied. Ultimately, the question is: would you rather be mean to a server or risk being mean to someone who is already being mean to you? For Bill Hader, it was clear that the latter option was the better choice.
| Loss of income | Damage to relationships | Missed opportunities |
In the end, it’s clear that being mean to a server can have serious consequences. Whether it’s losing your job, damaging your reputation, or missing out on opportunities, it’s not worth it. So the next time you’re feeling frustrated with a server, take a deep breath and remember that they’re just trying to do their job. And if you’re a server, remember that you’re not just serving food and drinks, you’re serving customers. And customers are the ones who can make or break your day.
Conclusion
In conclusion, being mean to a server can have serious consequences. Whether it’s Bill Hader or you, it’s clear that being kind to servers is the better option. So the next time you’re feeling frustrated, take a deep breath and remember that servers are just trying to do their job. And who knows, you might just end up like Bill Hader, a former Saturday Night Live cast member who’s living his best life.

